20.2: If one has children born in
the same lagnam with two wives,
seperate (2) AchAryAs have to
perform Vaidhika KarmAs in two
Vedikais ( Fire pits/agni kuntams).
21. Who should not be offered namaskArams?
NamaskArams should not be performed
for those younger than one ; same for
chitthappa , uncle , Father-in-Law if
they are younger than one . One should
however get up and greet them ( Show
respect ot them).
22. The qualifications/lakshaNams
for a KanyA appropriate for considering
marriage :
221.1 KanyAs with following avalakshaNams
(disqualifications) should not be considered :
a) one with auburn or reddish hair( sempattai)
b) one who is fatter than the would be husband
c) One with With hair all over the body
d) one with little hair on the head( Baldish)
e) One with "cat's eyes" ( very light color)
f) with body as dark as one's hair
g) One having the name of Nakshathram,
river , tree or mountain
h) one with skin having very light pigmentation
( VeNN Kushtam ?)
i) One who is too tall or too short
j) One with moustache
k) One with rough voice
l) One with fearsome name
m) One with roaring voice
n) One with voice like that of the crow
o) One with round eyes
p) One who is foul smelling
Q) One who has twisted row of teeth
r) One whose brows are joined
s) one who has six fingers in hand or foot
22.2: not recommended to marry a girl ,
who is the one and only child
22.3 The age of the girl should be atleast
one year less than the boy.Otherwise , there
is no approval by saastrams .
23: KanyakadhAna Karthaa : who can give
the Kannikai away in marriage ?
23.1: Father, Paternal Grandfather, Brother ,
Brothers of the Father, Maternal grandfather,
Uncle , SagOthran ( One having the same
gOthram) , Relatives can perform kanyAdhAnam ;
If they are not available , the nearest relative
and those who belong to the same Gruhya
Soothram can perform kanyA dhAnam .
23.2: One with disease or one who is mad
should not perform KanyA dhAnam .
Post Script: Translated from the Text of the 1937
book of Brahma Sri Mutthuswamy Iyer without
changes in the original text or comments .
PERSONAL Post Post Script: Some of the dharma
Saasthram instructions may sound harsh by today's
standards but their goal is to have a happy Family ,
happy wedded life and an Aasthikaa Community
devoted to Bhagavath , BhAgavatha and AchArya
Kaimkaryams and dharma Samvardhanam .
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