Respected swamin
it appears the part 2 of response copied to you is not received at your end. so
repeating same.
dhasan
vasudevan m.g.
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From: M.G.Vasudevan
Sent: Tue 8/15/2006 7:58 AM
To: Vivek Shankar Natarajan
Cc: yennappan@xxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: Re: Query - Shrimad Ramayanam - 2
From: Vivek Shankar Natarajan [nvivekshankar@xxxxxxxxx] [VSN]
Sent: Wednesday, August 09, 2006 9:04 PM
To: M.G.Vasudevan [MGV]
Subject: Re: Query - Shrimad Ramayanam
Dear Sri Vasudevan Swami Ji,
Continued as part 2:
MGV adds: We saw in ahalyaa and indhra the 'PeN aasai' - desire for sex -
dominating. Here in kaikEyee front it is 'maN aasai' - the raajyam - kingdom -
for her son - this is but a 'normal' mother's desire. As you say dhasaratha
later excused her at raamaa's behest.
kuru prasaadham dharmagna: kaikEyyaa bharathasya cha |
sa puthraam thvaam thyajaam ithi yadh ukthaa kaikEyee thvayaa ||
sa saapam kaikEyee ghOra, saputhraam na sprusEth prabhO | 6-122- 25, 26
There also a subtle point is available - this is to be understood. If a lady
does not bear a child for her husband - that lady can be banished / brushed
aside [in tamil -thaLLi vaikkalaam] and another wife can be taken to produce a
son. That is the saasthram - practiced those days. That is what raama also
pleads with his father 'do not forego kaikeyee, because she has a son'. For a
son is always the savior of 'pithrus' from the hell of 'puth'. To get that
important 'son', more than one marriage is permitted those days.
Further once a mother is banished, the son produced by her is also banished.
That is why raama did not want to lose his brother, because of father's action
of banishing mother [that too raama pleads after he passed away and returned
from swargam to see his son raamaa's feat. [or feet] for dhasaratha also says
to lakshmaNa 'raama is saakshaath avyaktham aksharam brahma samhitham' who else
it is except mahaa vishNu, sreeman naaraayaNan' - like earlier brahma sthuthi
[just aheadof dhasaratha talking].
Also dhasaratha went to swargam only and not to sree vaikuntam the abode of the
supreme lord.
VSN: When that is the case, why is my mother Sita Piratti, the embodiment of
all things good, pure and noble subjected to such a harsh language pre-agni
pravesam. When Rama did forgive everyone, why such a treatment for my Piratti
twice (counting Uttara Rama charitam)? It is in this spirit that I experience
the lacerations. You are right. Maybe, I need to be more dispassionate. But,
would that mean I should not look at Sita as a mother and merely a Character in
a tale? I do not know.
MGV: Uttara raama charitham [URC] of bhavabhuthi? After a good search in the
net, I am able to get that book today. After going through only I can comment
on URC. Further this is a 'drama' written based on later raamaayaNam incidents
in uththara kaaNdam - may be, in certain cases, the author of drama has the
liberty to twist the main story to suit his point. [like kiraathaarjuneeyam by
bhaaravi wherein dhuryOdhana is described as a wonderful king who took care of
his subjects well]. Further there is also a contention that vaalmeeki did not
write uththara kaaNdam and somebody else. If so, then to what extent, we can
give credence to URC in the same way as vaalmeeki?
On that harsh language in pre-agni pravEsam - my comments are -
Seethaa's tongue lashing will really upset any 'normal' man - since he is raama
the super natural - he acted in that way - at a later stage - to seethaa - of
course with a difference - the seethaa tongue lashing was in private - between
these two, raama and seethaa. Raamaa's tongue lashing was in open, in front of
all. That again is a typical 'man's style' - in an act.
It is stated in ayOdhyaa kaanDam first sargam - he did not react to harsh words
spoken by others. That is what we see in seethaa's case initially - after a
long time he reacts in pre-agni pravEsam.
sa cha nithyam prasaantha aathmaa mrudhu poorvE cha BhaashathE |
uchyamaanO~pi parusham na uththaram prathipadhyathE || 2-1-10
Meaning: That Raama was forever peaceful in mind and spoke softly. He did not
react to the hard words spoken by others.
See some examples of seethaa's tongue lashing -
yadhi maam duhkhithaam Evam vanam nEthum na cha ichchhasi |
visham agnim jalam vaa aham aasthaasyE mruthyu kaaraNaat || 2-29-21
meaning: I shall take resort to poison or fire or water for dying, if you are
not willing to take me, afflicted as I am, as above."
[may be seethaa is the forerunner, in this kind of threatening, to the wives of
these days and also a dialogue renderer to all fims and serials]
kim thvaa amanyatha vaidhEha: pithaa mE mithilaa adhipa: |
raama jaamaatharam praapya sthriyam purusha vigraham || 2-30-3
Meaning: What my father, the king of mithila, belonging to the country of
vidhEha, think of himself having got you, as son-in-law, a woman having the
form of a man?"
[this will provoke any ordinary man because it hits at his masculinity but
raama reacted slowly]
svayam thu bhaaryaam koumaareem chiram adhyushithaam satheem |
sailoosha Eva maam raama parEbhyo dhaathum ichchhasi || 2-30-8
meaning: Oh, Raama! I am a young girl, lived for a long time with you, a chaste
woman and your wife. How would you, like an actor intend to deliver me, to
others, by your own will?"
When she lashed the words in 2-30-8 without provocation, the same was paid back
to her. Raama says, "As I as a husband fulfilled my duty of rescuing you from
the abductor by killing him, and, now you are free to go as you please - for
you only said then that 'like an actor why you intend to deliver to others'.
Now knowing fully well I deliver you to others" - by saying this, he acts to
deliver as per her words [please note that word ACT].
[Perhaps this point was not touched in the ordeal by fire - in main as well
counters by other swamins - though sadagopan swamy quoted this slokam in
seethaa's sins.]
Oh, a grand 'tit for tat'. This does not mean I enjoy this with a male
chauvinism but things, which are to be enjoyed, are to be enjoyed dispassionate.
Also that accusing lakshmaNa - who says 'I have never seen her above her ankle
- so I can not identify her other jewels except her 'golusu' -
ichChasi thvam vinasyantham raamam lakshmaNa math kruthE || 3-45-6
lobhaath thu math krutham noonam na anugachChasi raaghavam |
meaning: Because of me you wish Raama to be completely destroyed, and only
because of your cupidity for me you are not following up on Raaghava. It is
definite. [3-45-6b, 7a]
Please read 'sita's sins big and small' in two parts by Sri Sadagopan iyengar
available in archives. In case you are able to lay hands on these, please write
to me and I will send that. To a large extent that article explains the reasons
for raama's tongue lashing - tit for tat - sita's tongue lashing earlier to
raama and lakshmana. Also please read fully the lengthy article 'ordeal by
fire' with all comments and counters by others. It is Quite fascinating. After
that perhaps you will not have that lacerating feelings.
VSN: Our life is inexplicably intertwined with God - specially Maha lakshmi and
Shriman Narayana of whose incarnations, Shri Sita Piratti and Shri Rama Piran,
appear very approachable and lovable. We celebrate their birthday, homecoming,
chant their names everyday, celebrate their celestial wedding and invoke their
name for all good occasions. The title song for our marriages is Sita Kalyanam.
How do we get away from that special bonding that one enjoys with the divine
couple who walked on earth? It is said that Ramayanam is Sitayaha Charitam
Mahat. I understand that spirit. However, I am only seeing the troubles of
Piratti. I want to see her success and her joys.
MGV: On Seethaa's joys - Yes. What vaalmeeki describes in raamaayaNam is much
without the 'timescale'. That gives a 'tilt' that seethaa was always in
suffering.
First upto the kanyaa age - which as per dictionary is placed at around 10, she
is happy in mithila with janaka. This 'kanyaa' age - vaalmeeki does not
indicate anywhere except saying the bow is kept as kanyaa shulkam. Seethaa
repeats I am ayOnija, and janaka also. But no time is indicated. Even raama's
birth, education etc is all pushed up so fast in one sargam very fast - to be
precise in 18 slokams 8 to 26 of 18th sargam of baala kaaNdam.
[here just compare for a minute srimadh bhaagavatham - krishNaa 's baala
leelaa's - oh joyful tears flow even just to make a mention of krishNaa's baala
leelaas - raama's baala leelaas - just 'no adequate details'].
After marriage as seethaa herself says, 'we enjoyed life for 12 years in
ayOdhyaa, in 13th year the king proposed coronation'.
ushithvaa dhvaa dhasa samaa: ikshvaakooNaam nivEsanE |
bhunjaanaa maanushaan bhOgaan sarva kaama samruddhinee || 3-47-4
Meaning: On residing in the palace of ikshvaakus [meaning in Ayodhya] for 12
years, I have relished all human prosperity and all cherishes, sumptuously.
thaththra thrayOdhasE varshE raaja amanthryatha prabhu: |
abhishEchayithum raamam samEthO raaja manthribhi: || 3-47-5
Meaning: In the 13th year, therein [in that Ayodhya] that lordly king
Dasharatha deliberated together with his imperial ministers, to anoint my lord
raama as Crown Prince.
Of course, these two slokams are seethaa's introduction to raavaNa in aaraNya
kaaNdam and later she repeats 'very same 12 years enjoyment' matter in her
introduction to hanumaan in sundhara kaaNdam. So she had her quota of 'married
life enjoyment' in city ayOdhyaa.
One more slokam to calculate age is given -
mama bharthaa mahaathEjaa vayasaa pancha vimsaka || 3-47-10
aSTaa dasha hi varshaaNi mama janmani gaNyathE |
Meaning: My great-resplendent husband was of 25 years of age [at that time of
proposal for coronation] and to me, 18 years are reckoned up from my birth.
MGV adds: Further, for a period of 13 years, seethaa spent happily in the
forest with husband raama, and 'servant and brother in law' lakshmaNa. Again
this reference of spending these may years in just two or three slokams in
aaraNya kaaNdam.
Only in the 14th year of forest living the abduction takes place. For a period
of 10 months, she was located in asOka vanam. In the 14th year last two months
only all these searching by hanumaan, yudhDham, tongue lashing, agni pravesam,
and reunion - for which vaalmeeki spends more than half the volume of sreemadh
raamaayaNam.
Later when she returned to ayOdhyaa [after raavaNan was killed], she lived
happily for 10900 years. For in the very first sargam as well as in
pattaabhishEkam sargam of yudhDha kaaNdam, it is said raama ruled for 11000
years.
dhasa varsha sahasraaNi dhasa varsha sathaani cha |
raamO raajyam upaasithvaa brahma lokam prayaasyathi||" (1-1-97)
meaning: "On reverencing the kingdom for ten thousand years plus another one
thousand years, [i.e. for a total of 11000 years,] Rama voyages to the abode of
Brahma... [1-1-97]
In the last 100 years or so, only that seethaa's garbham - carrying of lava and
kusa, separation by way of banishment on vaNNaan's comment, birth of lava and
kusa, bringing them up, reunion of the kids with father raama, seethaa taking
off from this world by going into mother earth, raamaa sending the 3 mothers,
finally he himself leaving etc, etc. [again not much details on the time period
in uththara kaaNdam].
You stated "why such a treatment for my Piratti twice?" In the second time
sending to forest when seethaa is a garbhavathi- pregnant woman - seethaa only
prefers a stay in the forest during her 'masakkai' period - raama asks her what
would you like to have or where you would like to go during this period of
masakkai - she prefers a forst stay - sargam 41 42 of uththara kaandam - which
incidentally adds a reason for banishment according to comment of vaNNaan.
So it is not that seethaa did not enjoy life. But since raamaayaNam rushes fast
in these areas, perhaps we may not feel the 'impact' of 'joy' of the couple.
VSN: Since that is not visible, I am grieving and sad. Your advise and
suggestions will greatly benefit me - almost like a Sanjeevani. Adiyen Vivek
MGV: The 'joyful times of seethaa' - on that, points added above in 'time
scale'. Some references of how they enjoyed are available in aaraNya kaaNdam.
Since you, yourself, are a thorough reader of raamaayaNam, you can lay hands
on. Otherwise also it can be provided. Whether it serves as 'sanjeevani' or
'amirtham' itself, you only have to decide. [sanjeevani is only a 'life giver'
again leading to 'death' - the end of life is its natural course. Amirtham is
the nectar, which gives no 'death' - 'amarathvam']
Facts only are placed before you. On the second part question of you [given
below], I will comment in next post.
Dhasan
Vasudevan m.g.
PS: respected sadagopan swamy, pranaamams, thank you sending the mail to groups
also. i am sending this to you two only and you can forward to groups at your
end.
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From: Vivek Shankar Natarajan [mailto:nvivekshankar@xxxxxxxxx]
Sent: Fri 8/11/2006 2:46 AM
To: M.G.Vasudevan
Subject: Re: Query - Shrimad Ramayanam
Dear Sri Vasudevan Swami,
Continuing on the same lines that I wrote earlier, I have more queries.
We hail Sundarakandam as the cream of Ramayana. The main aspect of this Kandam
is that Hanuman gets the message of Swami to Piratti and then Piratti to Swami.
He paves the way for union of two souls. After that, the destruction of Demon
race takes place. Then pattabhishekam takes place. So far so good.
But my problem is with the ending. After all this superhuman effort, Swami has
to sacrifice Piratti. Then, what is the use of all that great efforts of Sri
Anjaneya. What is the message?
This questions really bother me and some answers will really help me.
Vivek
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