Grannies out of line
The Ragin’ Grannies are way out of line here. How dare they use Memorial Day as a day when they try and get their political points across? It’s a slap in the face to the men and women who serve this country and to the families of the men and women who have lost their lives fighting for this country. Memorial Day is about remembering those who lost their lives for this country. You don’t have to support the war to remember the fallen soldiers.
This is no different than the BOA having a Misael Martinez Day in Carrboro in remembrance of a fallen soldier and then, in the same meeting, call for an immediate withdrawal of the troops in Iraq.
STOP using days when we remember fallen soldiers as a time for politicking!!!!
John Avery
Durham
Misael Martinez’s mother requested that the resolution include a call for immediate withdrawl.
I remember when I wrote a letter to the editor of the Indy expressing an opinion about something going on in Durham. (I live in Chapel Hill) The next week an angry Durhamite wrote complaining that they didn’t need someone from Chapel Hill telling them how Durham should be.
Well… I take this opportunity to respectfully tell you the same thing Mr. Avery. Many of us live in Chapel Hill and Carrboro because we AGREE with what the Raging Grannies say. I LOVE Durham and respect all those that live there. But please but out! We really don’t care what the rest of NC has to say about our liberal ideas!
May I be blessed to grow old in Carrboro being a raging old Grampa!
Brian,
I work in Carrboro so I feel I have a right to voice my opinion here. I think you missed the point of my post. It didn’t have anything to do with agreeing or disagreeing with the Raging Grannies. How do you know that I don’t agree with them? My ONLY point was that they shouldn’t use a day in which we remember fallen soldiers as a day to protest the war. It seems that you were too caught up in my mailing address to see the point.
I do not recall reading that the Ragin’ Grannies were using the protest to further their own political careers, nor did I read of them making a monetary profit from their protest.
I would think trying to stop more soldiers from being fallen soldiers would be the most admirable thing to do on a day set to remember all those that have died and those that will still die within the near future.
So the “most admirable” thing we can do on MEMORIAL Day is protest the war? I’m sure that the families of fallen soldiers must agree with you.
I think I understood your letter just fine John. I choose to express one bit of outrage that’s been bugging me of late. Here is another bit.
I am so sick of those who would say that being anti-war is anti-solider. As Mayor Chilton wrote above Misael Martinez’s mother asked for the resolution calling for an end to the war. I don’t think anyone who wants soldiers to come home and be safe are against them. Mothers of solders or Raging Grannies.
What part of “The Ragin’ Grannies are way out of line here.” is not against what they do?
You brought out TIRED and OLD rhetoric to attack loved citizens of our community. Nice of the Citizen to post your letter so we could react to it…
I went to the above mentioned event and stood silently. I cried when all the names of soldiers where read. I wish so much all the dead could come back. But they won’t. Please John don’t tell me how to morn and work to end war!
Obviously we have different opinions, and that’s fine. Again, I am not against what they do, simply the day they chose to do it.
On a side note, I did not write a letter to the editor. They chose to publish a quick comment I made on the online site. I personally think there is a big difference in the two. If I were to write a letter to the editor I would put much more thought and feeling into it and I probably would have done more research. Just my two cents.
In my family, Memorial Day was a day of remembrance, not just of our veterans but of family members who had passed on. Every year my parents would load us into the car for a drive back to their home town to help grandmothers go around to the various cemetaries, placing flowers on family graves and telling us stories in the expectation that we would pass those stories along to our children.
My grandparents are all gone now, along with my mom. But my father and sister continue the tradition. Like John, I regret the invasion of politics into a day of remembrance. That regret has nothing to do with my feelings on the war, just a longing for a simpler time where family stories connected us to past generations.