Dear friend,
Very interesting posting! Your problem is quite a common one in the
world. Based on what you have written, you would be well advised to
do either of the following:
(a) use all the 'help' you say you usually extend to others for your
own sake and benefit. There will be no need then to go back to your
friends looking for return favours.
or,
(b) change your friends,
Rgds,
dAsan,
Sudarshan
--- In SriRangaSri@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Sreenivas" <sreenivas_r@xxxx>
wrote:
> Hi All,
>
> I am a person who never has any ulterior motives while helping
others. I
> have helped lot of people throught my life. They were transformed
from None
> to something in their thought process. They have reached to some
extent of
> thinking which is helpful for their day-to-day works. The people
whom I have
> transformed into this state started questioning me and never care
or even
> have the thankfulness in their mind. On couple of instances when I
have
> needed some basic help, these people started telling stories rather
thought
> how they can help me back. I normally look for help at the
convience of the
> people I ask, rather than ask them at my convienence.
> After encountering couple of instances like these, somehow I have
started
> developing to stop any kind of "out of the way help" which I have
been doing
> so far and now. So could any one suggest me how do I need to handle
these
> kind of situations.
> I have not done any help expecting a help from others in the
future. But
> when I needed a help and it is a dire need, if these guys don't
come in
> handy, I feel upset. So please let me where I need to tweek my
thought
> process.
>
> Thanks
>
> Satya
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